Brian Bailey, the Internet Manager at Fellowship Church in Grapevine, Texas. recently blogged on Leave It Behind about the power of the internet (more specifically, of blogs) to facilitate offline conversations and relationships:
I had the chance today to have coffee with Erik Lane, someone I met through the wonder of weblogs....Our conversation confirmed once again that blogs really enable offline conversations as much as online ones. Meeting someone for the first time who you already know through blogs is very unique as a shared history already exists.
Reading what Brian wrote reminded me of a quick exchange (it was so short that I can’t call it a conversation) at our local evangelical ministers fellowship meeting a couple of months ago. A small groups pastor from one of our local churches teased me a bit by saying, “It’s good to see you in person and not just behind your computer!”
He was teasing me, but the teasing had a valuable lesson at its core. Since I am a strong believer in small groups and the power of community that is expressed in small, intimate gatherings of believers, I took what he meant as teasing to be a healthy reminder that internet evangelists should not forget.
All that we do as Christian workers in the digital arena should have as its ultimate goal the facilitation of face-to-face relationships. It’s ultimately the love of Christ revealed in community that convinces the unbeliever of the love of God and of Jesus’ mission (cf. John 17:21-23), and so any evangelism which takes place outside of community should be considered suspect in its effectiveness.
Does this mean that an online chat is ineffective? No, not any more than a face-to-face one-on-one chat is ineffective. But it does mean that we should always be looking for ways to facilitate face-to-face relationships and offline conversations through our efforts on the web.
Face-to-face conversations lead more naturally to wider exposure for the unbeliever to Christian community. Faciltating that process through online conversations requires a more intentional commitment.
For example, when I am in the midst of an online conversation with an unbeliever who I have never met face-to-face, am I thinking about where they are located and if I have believing friends or acquaintances in that area to whom I can eventually introduce my new friend?
Sometimes, this may not seem feasible (in conversations with people in certain creative access nations, for example), but it should always be our goal.